Sound resources for our older sons Proverbs 15: 5, A fool despiseth his father’s instruction: but he that regardeth reproof is prudent. Are you preparing your older sons to be a godly man who is able to stand for truth no matter what obstacles he faces? As parents, we are required to. Masculinity is under attack. Yet God calls men to be the leaders of our homes, churches, and in …
Red flag alert: Is he too good to be true?
Before you marry, you have a choice. After you marry, you’ve made your choice. The man you marry is the man you are choosing to lead you, protect and provide for you, to guide you spiritually, and to be a wise and loving father to your children. Never ignore red flags. Be wise biblically. Before you say “I do,” make certain he’s a godly man.
Are you about to marry a child of the devil?
Marriage is a reflection of Christ and the church. A marriage made up of two of God’s redeemed is as near to heaven on earth as it is possible to come. A marriage made up of one of God’s children and a child of the devil is a pain nearly unequaled in its intensity.
It doesn’t matter if he’s a cute guy
Look for a man who truly loves God, His Word, and His church. If your man loves the Lord and His Word, if he is obedient to the Lord, he will most assuredly love you. This kind of man will treat you well. He’ll do whatever it takes to bring in funds sufficient in order to provide for you and the children. He’ll want to make you laugh and bring you joy. He’ll tell you the truth about yourself rather than putting you on a pedestal from which you can easily fall.